Understanding Hormones, Metabolism, and What Actually Helps
If you’ve found yourself staring at your wardrobe wondering when your jeans got so tight, know this: you’re not alone. One of the most common (and quietly frustrating) changes women talk to us about is weight gain in midlife. It can feel like it arrives overnight, just as everything else starts to shift too.
In our 2025 Women’s Health & Happiness Study, we heard something loud and clear: 62% of midlife women feel under-informed about how menopause affects their metabolism.
And that gap in knowledge doesn’t just impact our physical wellbeing. It weighs on us emotionally. We often hear things like: “I haven’t changed a thing, but nothing seems to work anymore.”
That feeling makes sense. Because something has changed. Not your commitment or your character, but your biology.
Let’s break down the shifts that often start during perimenopause and continue into menopause.
1. Hormonal Changes
Oestrogen, progesterone and testosterone begin to fluctuate, which can impact:
One key shift is fat distribution. As oestrogen declines, fat is more likely to settle around the abdomen instead of the hips or thighs. This is a hormonal pattern, not a sign your efforts aren’t enough.
2. Metabolism
Slows Down Even if your habits haven’t changed since your 30s, your resting metabolism likely has. You’re burning fewer calories at rest, even with the same diet and activity level.
3. Loss of Muscle Mass
From around age 40, we naturally lose 3 to 8 percent of muscle per decade. Since muscle helps fuel your metabolism, less muscle means fewer calories burned.
4. More Stress, More Cortisol
Midlife often carries a heavier mental load. Cortisol, the stress hormone, can remain elevated. When it does, it encourages fat storage, particularly around the middle.
5. Sleep Disruptions
Night sweats, early waking, anxiety - all common in midlife - can throw hunger and blood sugar regulation out of balance. Poor sleep isn’t just exhausting, it makes healthy habits harder to maintain.
We’ve all heard it:
“Eat less.”
“Do more cardio.” “
Cut calories.”
But when your body is shifting, those tactics often do more harm than good. In fact, they can:
The truth is that perimenopause requires a gentler, more strategic approach. One that works with your body, not against it.
Here’s what research and experience show can truly support your body in this season:
1. Strength Training
This is one of the most powerful tools for midlife women.
Strength work helps:
And no, you don’t need to live at the gym. Just two sessions a week can make a meaningful difference.
2. Prioritising Protein
Many women aren’t getting enough protein, especially in the morning, which can lead to:
Aim for a mix of sources (including 50 percent from plants) and spread protein across all meals. This helps stabilise energy and supports muscle repair.
3. Managing Stress (Really Managing It)
This goes deeper than occasional self-care. True stress support might look like:
When stress hormones like cortisol come down, weight can stabilise more easily.
4. Supporting Hormonal Balance
This might include:
Small tweaks in daily habits can make a noticeable difference in how you feel and how your body responds.
5. Understanding Your New Baseline
Your body is not misbehaving, even if it feels like it. It’s adapting. And it’s asking for different support. This isn’t about going backward. It’s about evolving forward.
The Emotional Side of Weight Changes
We hear this time and again. Weight gain in midlife doesn’t just change how clothes fit…it can affect:
But here’s what we want you to know:
You are allowed to feel unsettled and hopeful. Your beauty is still here. So is your power. This chapter asks us to meet our bodies with more kindness and curiosity, not criticism.
Midlife can be a return to ourselves, not a retreat from who we were.
Let’s focus on what’s real. Evidence-based strategies rooted in compassion, not restriction.
We believe:
This is about coming home to yourself, with support, not shame.
Midlife weight gain is a normal, manageable part of hormonal change. With the right tools: strength training, nourishing food, stress support, and hormonal care, you can rebuild energy, confidence and connection with your body.
You haven’t lost anything. You’re learning something new. And we’re with you every step.
